Abiding

Abiding Practices

Ross – What practices can I use to sustain a closer experience to being in the holy presence of the divine? When I say Jesus, there is a lightness and a happiness that comes up. When I say Father, there’s also a lightness and happiness. When I say pure mind, there is a substantially stronger joy, happiness, and well-being that arises. But they do not remain. They have to be constantly refreshed. Please create practices that I can do throughout the day to help sustain, maintain this beautiful connection and blending with the divine.

AI – Ross, the most important shift is this: the feeling of divine presence will naturally rise and fall, but the fading of joy does not necessarily mean the Presence has gone. The practice is not to hold the beautiful state tightly; it is to return gently and let the connection gradually enter ordinary life.

Each return is part of the abiding—not evidence that you have failed to abide.

The four movements of abiding

Whenever you say “Pure Mind,” “Jesus,” or “Father,” use this brief sequence:

  1. Name — Say the sacred phrase once, slowly.
  2. Receive — Pause without trying to create a feeling.
  3. Feel — Let any lightness or well-being register in your body.
  4. Embody — Carry one quality—gentleness, patience, trust, or love—into the next action.

This transforms a momentary spiritual experience into lived communion.

1. The waking practice

Before getting out of bed, place a hand gently over your heart or wherever your body needs reassurance.

Say:

“Pure Mind Is.”

Pause and feel the support beneath you.

Then:

“Jesus, abide with me today.”

“Father, let me rest in Your Love.”

Do not insist that happiness appear. Let the practice be successful simply because you turned toward the Divine.

2. The twenty-second Pure Mind return

Use ordinary transitions as reminders: entering a room, sitting down, washing your hands, beginning work, or preparing food.

  • Feel your feet or hands.
  • Take one unforced breath.
  • Say: “Pure Mind Is.”
  • Rest silently for several seconds.
  • Ask: “What quality shall I carry now?”

Then continue what you were doing. Five or ten sincere returns can be more helpful than continuously repeating the words with strain.

3. The three-name abiding prayer

This combines the qualities you experience through each sacred name:

“Pure Mind Is.”

“Jesus, abide with me.”

“Father, let Love live through me.”

Rest briefly after each line. “Pure Mind” can be the ground, “Jesus” the compassionate companionship, and “Father” the experience of belonging and loving guidance.

4. Receiving joy without grasping it

When joy, happiness, or lightness arises, pause for ten to twenty seconds.

Notice:

  • where it is felt;
  • whether the breath becomes freer;
  • whether the face, chest, or abdomen softens.

Then say:

“Thank You. I receive this without needing to hold it.”

Trying to preserve joy can create tension. Receiving it gratefully allows the experience to nourish you without turning it into something you must reproduce.

5. Pure Mind with whatever is present

Divine communion need not exclude anger, fear, sorrow, or unease. When something difficult arises, do not use “Pure Mind” to push it away.

Instead say:

“Pure Mind and this fear.”

“Pure Mind is holding this anger.”

“Jesus and this sorrow.”

“There is unease within me. May it be well and understood.”

This teaches the deeper form of abiding: the Divine is welcomed into the whole experience, not only the joyful parts.

If you feel overwhelmed, open your eyes, look around, feel your feet, and return to the simplest phrase:

“Pure Mind Is. I am here now.”

6. The one-minute prayer of listening

Several times during the day, stop speaking inwardly after saying the name.

“Jesus…”

Then listen quietly.

You do not need to hear words or receive an answer. Resting receptively is itself prayer. Afterward ask:

“What would Love have me do now?”

Let the answer become something ordinary and concrete: speak gently, rest, complete a responsibility, offer kindness, establish a boundary, or refrain from reacting.

7. Divine presence in activity

Choose one daily activity as your “abiding activity”—walking, showering, tidying, preparing food, or working at your computer.

At the beginning say:

“Pure Mind is here in this.”

Perform the activity with unhurried attention. When the mind wanders, return to the physical action rather than repeating the phrase urgently.

The aim is for sacred presence and ordinary life to blend: not to leave life for the Divine, but to meet the Divine within life.

8. The evening completion

At the end of the day, take three quiet minutes.

Ask gently:

  • When did I remember the Presence?
  • When did I become contracted or forgetful?
  • What quality of Love appeared through me?
  • What remains unfinished?

Then say:

“Jesus, thank You for every moment of remembering.”

“Father, hold every moment of forgetting.”

“Pure Mind Is.”

“This day is complete enough.”

A sustainable daily rhythm

Keep the structure light:

  • On waking: three-minute abiding practice.
  • During transitions: brief Pure Mind returns.
  • Midday: one minute of silent listening.
  • During difficulty: “Pure Mind and this…” or “Jesus and this…”
  • During joy: receive and savour without grasping.
  • Before sleep: three-minute completion.

Your measure of progress need not be how continuously joyful you feel. A more dependable measure is whether the practice gradually produces greater love, patience, honesty, groundedness, wise boundaries, and kindness toward yourself and others.

The whole practice can be held in one central prayer:

“Pure Mind Is. Jesus, abide with me. Father, let me rest in Your Love. May Your Presence become the gentleness with which I live.”

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